The Body Never Forgets: Memory Really Looks Like Pain

In trauma healing, we often talk about "letting go" or "moving on." But what if healing isn’t about forgetting but about remembering differently? What if the body holds every moment we’ve tried to forget, not to punish us, but to guide us back to truth? In Walk Your Past, I share this core truth: the body doesn’t lie. It remembers what the mind has been trained to suppress. Through pain, posture, illness, tension, or disconnection, the body speaks waiting for us to listen.

Dahiana Naidu

8/24/20242 min read

“The body never forgets. It stores what the mind buries. And when you listen, it tells the truth.”
— Walk Your Past by Dr. Dahiana Naidu

Science Confirms What Ancient Cultures Always Knew

Research now supports what ancient systems of medicine and indigenous traditions have always practiced: trauma and memory live in the body.
Dr. Bessel van der Kolk, in his seminal book The Body Keeps the Score, shows how unprocessed trauma gets embedded in the nervous system, influencing behavior, health, and even gene expression.

Similarly, Peter Levine’s Waking the Tiger: Healing Trauma explores how animals naturally release trauma through the body
But humans, disconnected from instinct, tend to store it.

These findings align with practices I share in my book, the use of breathwork, somatic awareness, and regression meditation to access body-held memory and restore nervous system safety.

Memory is Not Mental. It’s Cellular.

Your body holds ancestral memories, childhood wounds, moments of silence, and stories you never got to tell. You may forget what happened, but your body remembers the fear, the pattern, the shutdown.

We often feel symptoms — chronic pain, autoimmune flare-ups, anxiety, burnout — with no clear mental cause. That’s because these are not random. They are the body’s encrypted messages. Once we learn to interpret them, we unlock healing.

This is the somatic intelligence I teach in Walk Your Past — and in every session, ceremony, and regression meditation I offer.

Books Mentioned in My Journey

In Walk Your Past, I reference and build upon the work of pioneers and guides who helped me shape my understanding of memory and embodiment:

  • The Body Keeps the Score – Dr. Bessel van der Kolk

  • Waking the Tiger – Peter Levine

  • When the Body Says No – Dr. Gabor Maté

  • Molecules of Emotion – Dr. Candace Pert

  • The Biology of Belief – Dr. Bruce Lipton

  • Anatomy of the Spirit – Caroline Myss

  • Eastern Body, Western Mind – Anodea Judith

Each of these works affirms what I discovered in my own healing: the body carries wisdom.
And when we dare to listen with breath, curiosity, and compassion — we access deep, sustainable transformation.

A New Way to Heal

Healing is not an intellectual process. It is a somatic awakening. It begins not when we analyze, but when we feel. Not when we erase the past, but when we walk it — gently, truthfully, and with love.

Let this truth live in you:
Your body remembers not to hurt you — but to guide you home.